By Guest Blogger: Sandy Heimberg
What a joy it is to choose an engagement ring! What a happy event—one of life’s defining moments. Or so you might think.
“Oh, really?” you say. “It’s also scary, stressful, and very expensive.” My answer? It doesn’t have to be—if you do it in the way that’s best for you and your intended.
Advice on buying an engagement ring
Know your budget
First and foremost, know your budget. The right jeweler will work within it and never push you to overextend yourself. They’ll also discuss a payment plan that fits your lifestyle.
Decide how much of a surprise you want
Consider whether it makes sense to choose both the setting and the center diamond yourself. Only you know if your fiancée has something specific in mind.
If she does, it may be better to let her select a few settings from which you can ultimately choose. She may also want to designate her preferred diamond shape and metal choice.
You can then return to the store later to complete the purchase—without her knowing the financial details.
Choose the right jeweler
The right jeweler will clearly explain what’s covered regarding repairs, stone loss, resizing, and refinishing. Choose wisely—interview jewelers to find the best fit for you.
Your jeweler should act as your educator and guide throughout the process. All your questions should be answered, and you should be encouraged to view diamonds under a microscope to understand their unique “fingerprints.”
Compare stones. Every diamond has its own personality.
Above all, your jeweler should make you feel like the most important client in the world—because you are, regardless of your budget.
You’ll feel the stress melt away once you realize you’re working with a patient, knowledgeable professional whose goal is to make you comfortable and thrilled with your final purchase.
Feel a little better now? Good—go out and make that engagement ring purchase with confidence!
Congratulations!
