If you are in the market for an unusual ring, have an idea for something different and spectacular but don’t know where to start—read on to find out why going the custom way may be right for you.
By Lucy Zimmerman
1. Use “old” to make “new”
Did you inherit an engagement ring from your grandmother or a diamond wedding band from another woman in your family? The “old” pieces carry a lot of sentimental value. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to re-use these diamonds in your own ring?
Work with your designer to incorporate the stones into a new engagement ring. Your ring will not only be unique, but will also carry a part of the special women in your family.
2. You love your friend’s engagement ring, but don’t want to be a copycat
You don’t have to be. Talk to a jewelry designer about the ring you admire and describe what you like about it. Is it the simplicity, intricate filigree details, or the bold mix of white and yellow gold?
Think style, and you’ll end up with a ring where every detail is you.
3. You don’t want a traditional engagement ring—you’re a trendsetter
The plain Tiffany-style ring isn’t for you. Maybe a three-stone ring? Still not right? If you’ve visited countless jewelry stores and haven’t found “the one,” it’s time to talk to a designer.
Describe your vision and sketch your ideas. Any detail helps your designer bring your dream ring to life.
4. You want to remember how the ring was made
You want to be involved at every step—from sketch to wax model to casting and stone selection. Custom designing isn’t just a process; it’s a journey.
5. You love what Hollywood actresses wear
Celebrity rings are stunning—but not always realistic. A good designer can help you substitute stones, scale designs, and adjust details to stay within budget while keeping the look you love.
6. Details only known to you
Want a hidden ruby, initials, or special date inside your ring? A skilled designer can place personal details in the gallery—keeping them meaningful and private.
7. You love period jewelry, but not estate pieces
Whether it’s Art Deco geometry or Edwardian lace-like elegance, tell your designer the era you love. They’ll guide the design to reflect that period beautifully.
8. You know a jeweler whose work you admire
A great jewelry designer is like a trusted doctor. If you’ve found one—stick with them.
9. Use your artistic abilities
If you can sketch your dream ring, even better. An experienced designer will refine your idea and ensure the design is structurally sound.
10. You have no idea what you want
That’s perfectly normal. Visit stores, try on rings, browse magazines, and take notes. A good designer will help combine the elements you love into one perfect ring.
Author: Lucy Zimmerman is a fourth-generation jewelry designer at Roman Jewelers in Flemington & Bridgewater Commons Mall, New Jersey.
For more information about Roman Jewelers and custom design work, visit:
https://www.romanjewelers.com/design-your-own-ring/choose-your-style
